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Why “Just Be Yourself” is the Best and Worst Dating Advice…

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We’ve all heard it before—that most cliched of dating advice ever given: “Just be yourself!”

Yes… and how many times have you heard this and just rolled your eyes and shook your head?

The truth is… this is simultaneously the most useless, but most profoundly important pieces of dating advice you can ever take on board.

For most people it is the most pointless and useless throwaway lines, because as far as I can tell, judging by all the people that I’ve ever met in my life, upwards of 90-95% of the world HAVE NO CLUE WHO THEY EVEN ARE! And when you don’t know who you are, well, it’s pretty impossible to “just be yourself”.

Most of these people are unconsciously just walking around as generic versions of the aggregate of ideas and expectations that have been thrown at them since birth. Add in a large, unhealthy dose of insecurity, and voila! Pretty much what you see everywhere: A BIG LOAD OF BULLSHIT!

And frankly, it’s just not attractive. At all.


In order to “Just be yourself”, you have to commit to making deep level changes to the way that you see yourself, see the world, and operate within it.

It takes work. Work on yourself. Work that most people never even touch upon during their 80+ years of existence on the planet.

Who are you really?

What is it you really desire out of life?

Where do you really want to be?

What do you really want to achieve, and why?

Where have you been in the past, and how has it changed you for the better?


These are just some of the important questions you need to be asking yourself in order to truly start to understand who you are, and what you’re really about. And when you start showing up, free of the bullshit that controls your every thought, decision, and movement, and start embracing your true authentic self, then others will finally see you for the amazingly wonderful and unique being that you are on the inside, but never really knew it.

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About The Author

Andrew Mashiko

Andrew Mashiko is Australia's Leading Dating & Lifestyle Coach, and #1 Bestselling author of "The Principles of Authentic Attraction". Andrew created the Core Attraction System to empower individuals to naturally and effortlessly attract their ideal partner through authenticity and embodying their true core identity.