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Category Archives: Attraction

Watch the exclusive dating seminar video: The Principles of Authentic Attraction

The Principles of Authentic Attraction

In this seminar video you will learn:
The 5 big dating mistakes and how to avoid them
How to embody you true core identity and become a magnet for others
How to eliminate the bullshit that holds you back in life
How to maximise energy to become an incredible attractive force
How to embrace your masculine and feminine to maximise connection and attraction
How to date efficiently and effectively and find your IDEAL PARTNER

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New podcast interview explaining how I embraced Radical Authenticity


Here’s a podcast interview I recorded last week with the amazingly talented Nicole van Hattem where I talk about my journey in becoming Radically Authentic, and how you can apply that to tap into your passion, find true love, and improve your life overall. I talk about my journey from being bullied during childhood, to the reasons why…

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Masculine vs Feminine Part 3: What Men Want

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Part 3 of the 3-part Masculine vs Feminine series. In this video I discuss 5 things that women can be conscious of that will tap into their femininity more effectively and increase the level of attraction men feel towards them.

5 things women should do be able better in order to captivate a man:
1. Be softer
2. Encourage the man to step up and lead
3. Move, act, and speak from the heart
4. Demand a man’s presence; call him out on his B.S.
5. Surrender yourself
Watch the video below for more details on what you can do to implement these 5 things…

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Masculine vs Feminine Part 2: What Women Want

What Women Want

Part 2 of the 3-part Masculine vs Feminine series. In this video I discuss 5 things that women would love more men to be able to do, and how you can do them to create greater attraction from women. 5 things men should do be able better in order to captivate a woman: Be solid…

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How Masculine and Feminine Energies Work in Attraction

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What differentiates men and women in their desires and needs within a relationship?

What is it that makes men and women attracted to each other?

Beyond the patriarchal norms that have dominated society for centuries (and to a large extent, still do), the guilt that men carry with regards to the historical subjugation of women, in conjunction with the rising prominence of neo-feminist activism that seeks to eliminate the role that gender plays in the broader social context, has, unsurprisingly, blurred and confused the roles of masculine and feminine energies in the context of attraction.

This 3-part video blog series seeks to illuminate the differences between feminine and masculine energies, provides you with a framework to understand what drives attraction in the opposite sex, and invites you to start respecting and embracing the differences inherent in the polarities in order to establish higher levels of romantic and sexual attraction within your relationships.

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What happens when a prominent Dating Columnist who’s been single for over 8 years meets a Reformed Pickup Artist-slash-Dating Coach?


Being single for more than 8 years, it was about time she wrote a brand new chapter in her own story of dating: one that ended the frustration with modern dating once and for all.

Looking at her extensive catalogue of dating misadventures and bungled attempts at finding love and establishing a relationship, it was crystal clear that something fundamental was going wrong and that given that most of my female clients typically find themselves in AMAZING relationships within 6-7 weeks of STARTING coaching with me, I was the person to help her end this romantic misery and singledom once and for all!
…so I decided to send her a video message:

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Top 5 Reasons Women Fail At Online Dating—5 Big Online Dating Mistakes

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Being smarter about how to filter potential dates, putting effort into communicating yourself effectively and not being afraid of offending some people along the way, and knowing exactly what you want, brutally cutting off anything less than that, are some ways you can massively improve your results, while reducing the amount of effort required to create a fulfilling and meaningful online/offline dating experience.

Watch the video below for more tips on how…

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Why Pickup Doesn’t Work

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So you’ve been doing pickup for a while now, but you can’t seem to develop a relationship of substance. You are just getting a series of one night stands and she never calls you back afterwards.

The problem is that if you want more than just random sex, pickup simply doesn’t work.

Watch the video to find out why, and what you need to do about it…

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The key to successful relationships: Know what fish you’re fishing for!

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Are you clear on the kind of person and relationship you’re looking for? Do you have any clear idea about who that person is? What their values are? Where they hang out? What their vision of the future is?

Most relationships begin from a place of convenience: you were there, they were there… typical “boy meets girl” situation, right?

However, what most often happens… and the reason why 1 in every 2 marriages end in divorce, and pretty much every other relationship ends in failure, is simply this: YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU’RE LOOKING FOR.

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An honest look at your results: Are you truly playing full out in life, or only giving it 50%?

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It’s time to man up and take a good hard look in the mirror and ask yourself: “Am I really playing full out in life, or am I only giving it 50%?”

Results take commitment. You are exactly where you deserve to be. Good or bad, where we end up in life is exactly due to the amount of effort and commitment we pour into it.

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